When men pull away in dating
Is it the media that refuse to let Chinese men become one the next Harrison Ford or Cary Grant, that iconic sexy and strong leading man? Whatever it is, it’s obviously these people who have the problem, and not you.
The guys might be threatened by seeing you with an Asian guy, someone they always figured they could somehow “out-do” to get the attention of a girl like you.
In order to succeed in love, you need someone who is going to help you open up to men in a genuine way and let your personality shine, without being overcome with fear or making the mistakes of your past.
Now there are a lot of attraction courses out there are going to tell you THEIR secret ways to attract men and get commitment are the ONLY way to guarantee success, but most of them are going to involve tricks and rules, all of which, in my opinion, can FURTHER DAMAGE your chances with men and cost you your integrity.
What I found was that despite my research and experience in dating, what I had been doing in my past was repeating the same mistakes over and over again, not really knowing, not really understanding what I was being called to learn from each dating experience.
But then I remember the words of my husband’s favorite Chinese idiom — 勇往直前 [yǒngwǎngzhíqián], or “courageously move forward.” Sometimes, that’s the most audacious thing that we can do, to simply live life to the fullest, in spite of the negativity. Needless to say, if you want love and commitment that will last beyond your second date, that's NOT the way to go about it. How about I show you a way of doing that, without having to change who you are?