Lithuanian dating and marriage beliefs
But remember that her not being able to express her thoughts properly and struggling to find the right words quickly may irritate your girlfriend even more. Can you imagine how annoying it might be to not understand the conversation at the dinner table?
Well imagine girls giggling to each other and saying your name from time to time and you still can’t understand them!
Even if you take your girlfriend to fancy restaurants or order takeaway pizza every evening there will be times when she will desperately need a proper Ukrainian soup or cutlets.
Generally Ukrainians don’t like frozen or pre-cooked meals so they don’t mind spending quite some time in the kitchen for the reward of a nice meal afterwards. It take so long to make one soup that it is not worth the time to do it every day.
If you have ever learnt a foreign language you may have noticed how much more difficult it becomes to speak it when you are emotional or very tired. For the majority of international couples it’s the girl who follows the man, that’s why I assume you will leave abroad, not in Ukraine, therefore in your everyday life you will be speaking the language of the man rather than the Ukrainian language.
That’s why during those unfortunate moments whilst arguing you will have a huge advantage, you will be able to say quickly and clearly what you want.
The time waiting for her to get ready is the price you pay for her prettiness so don’t moan when you meet people online.
I feel I have the right to write this article because I am Ukrainian and I date a foreigner so I know the topic “from the inside”.
But surely there are men who genuinely fell in love with Ukrainians the ‘normal way’.
Be prepared for that because this is exactly how you will feel when you go to visit her family and meet her friends.
They might be talking English or the language you understand in front of you but if they need to discuss something they don’t want you to undersand you will not be able to do anything about it.
It will significantly simplify your life as you won’t need to go through the tough process of lessons, misunderstandings, tests and stress connected to learning a language.