Dating a man who is shorter
You don’t want this to affect your relationship, but somehow it just does. But having a short guy on top of you is always slightly awkward.
No matter how many times you tell yourself you’re totally fine with this, it’s still there in the back of your head, eating away at your happiness. You’re the one who agreed to date him in the first place, you a-hole! When his feet reach only the tops of your ankles, it's weird.
” or “He’s really funny, trust me.” Or even, “I don’t care about trivial things like height.” You should not have to make justifications about your choice of mate. So you call him your "little munchkin" and ask if he can reach the top shelf without a stool. He wants to be a “man.”He has a classic Napoleon complex.
He wasn’t exactly shorter than me, but he had maaaaaaaybe an inch on me. There’s nothing wrong with dating a guy who’s shorter than you, but it does come with its difficulties. He’ll constantly ask you why you always wear flats.When I say "short," I’m talking like 5’7" and under. He may have a beautiful face, killer abs and a stellar personality, but all you or anyone else can seem to focus on is that your boo is a tiny little munchkin. I’m not wearing heels so I can be a solid 5 inches taller than you (and that’s in kitten heels)." When you do wear heels, he immediately realizes the error of his ways.Check out this equation: Dating Short Men = Uphill Battle. I haven’t conducted a study of my own on the subject, but I can assure you that scores of women of every type will say they simply aren’t attracted to short men.
Decoded, this equation refers to the tough time many short men have trying to find a romantic partner because some women won’t date someone shorter than they are. If you push them, they will hedge a bit: “I don’t know why, I’m just not.” As a psychologist, it’s not my job or place to be mean-spirited or hurtfully blunt, but it is my job to tell it like it is in reality.They can have a great sense of humor, be the life of the party, or the nurturer who is always taking care of everyone and making sure everyone’s okay.