Couples seeking female dating
Seriously, actually read your hot match's bio Tinder is our generation’s Tetris, and plenty play by swiping right on everyone and then going back and wading through matches.
Chances are you’ll match with someone whose bio explicitly states: “No couples,” or the cruder “I don’t want to fuck you and your ugly ass girlfriend,” so even if you’ve done due diligence and included couple photos and an honest bio, read your matches’ win case they haven’t closely eyed yours. ) One of my fondest memories is sitting at a Bernie Sanders rally in Queens, with my current partner, swiping together to see what Bernie babes may be interested in grabbing ramen with us after Sanders finished speaking.
My friend Tom, who has had a whopping Tinder threesomes, says: “I've had the most luck, most of the matches Chelsei gets are females looking strictly for other females.” Even if Tom’s advice is sage, I advocate for both partners making an account. Regardless of the swiper’s intentions (actually searching for a third, or going rogue), giving one of you the freedom to swipe madly on your own time can create tension between you and your partner if one of you feels like the passive participant.
Creating two accounts lowers the risks of such trouble brewing.
As we advocated with disclosing height, include in your bio that you’re a couple interested in a threesome, or if you want to be more poly-friendly, “we’re a couple looking to meet women to date together.” This is mandatory.
Support gender equality and both make an account There’s competing wisdom on if a couple’s profile should be made by the male or female (although thanks to the rollout of new gender options, you’re not limited to the binary).
For instance, I might tell my boyfriend: “Yeah, it might make me jealous watching you fuck another girl, but it would be so hot to give you a double blow-job,” or, “I’d love to see you try anal with another woman, just thinking about it turns me on, so we’re going to have to stock up on lube and condoms.”Then, after you’ve introduced the convo as dirty talk, circle back and discuss the details while clear-headed.
Communicate constantly, because things might get weird Unless you and your partner have identical taste in women, and have a herd of sexual guardian angels following you, there’s a chance that one of you might connect better or feel more attraction to the third than the other. With aforementioned ballerina, her and my partner had far better chemistry than she and I had.